Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Dates For Open-Minded Ladies



Occasionally the cosmos will line up for some lucky dude and he will find himself paired up with a sexually adventurous woman. The kind of woman who isn’t “prim and proper”, but rather, one who is interesting and kinky.  If you want to keep a lady like this interested in you, you have to change up the routine often, and take her to down less traveled roads regularly. Here are some ideas to get you thinking outside of the box so that you can end up inside the best sort of box on a regular basis!

Stripper Club

If your women has any sorts of bi-sexual tendencies, she will likely jump at the chance to go to a strip bar. I mean, she will likely enjoy the action as much as you! She might even buy you a lap dance, and vise-versa! There are some memories to last a lifetime! Many strippers are bi-sexual, or into threesomes, so if you want to really be out there, you might find that the girl on stage can be persuaded into a menage a trois. 

Adult Store Shopping Trip

If you’re at the point in your dating relationship with the kinky lady, a great date idea is the adult shop. Go to a bar before the adult shop, and have a drink or two.This will loosen both of you up even more, and by the time you get to the store, you’ll have few inhibitions left. Then you can walk through the aisles and find out what makes her blush. Ask her if there is anything that she is curious about that she might want to try. Tell her what kinds of things that you would like to try. Hold sexy outfits next to her and see how she would look in it. This always help get her into the game. If you are not pushy, you will find that you can easily while away a couple of enjoyable hours. At the end, you might be surprised with what she wants to buy. Just go with it. Be aware that quality sex toys and outfits can put a serious dent in the pocket book. But if there’s anything that is worth the dough, it’s a sex toy!

Role Playing

A fun and kinky date is one in which you pretend to be strangers that meet at the bar, and then you seduce each other using your different persona. Act like you don’t know each other and meet at a hotel bar. Buy her a drink and start chatting her up. Watch the bartender get more and more impressed the more and more she seems to be interested in you. Then, rent one of the rooms in the hotel and get the sheets dirty, if you know what I mean. You can be an astronaut or a spy, and she can be a prison warden or a movie star.

The best way to pick the role to play is to write them all down on separate pieces of paper, and then pick them out of a hat or something.


BDSM Parlor

If she is really edgy, you might want to try some BDSM. Best to do this in a BDSM parlor though because they have most of what you need.  Most regular practitioners are into the bondage side of things rather than the domination or the saddo masochism, so do not let the idea scare you.  Most parlors are willing to help newbie's along, even if they normally cater to the more experienced.



Enough ideas. I will stop now before I bore you. Besides the sex shops, you can always just rent costumes. There are plenty of places that cater to the movie industry that you can tap into, even Halloween costume shops! Look around and see if you can find fetish parties, murder mystery parties, or even sex theme hotel rooms. Just make sure you keep it fun, entertaining, and KINKY!

For more ideas try this link:

Advice for Men

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